My Fertility Journey
Clinically Equipped.
Personally Transformed.
I am a nurse, a public health practitioner, and someone who understands — both professionally and personally — how overwhelming fertility challenges can be.
Who Am I?
A Nurse. An Advocate. A Woman Who Has Been There.
My name is Quisha Umemba, and I support individuals and families navigating fertility journeys with compassion, clarity, and care. I am a nurse and public health practitioner by training, an educator and advocate by calling.
My work is grounded in the belief that fertility care is not just medical. It is psychological. It is emotional. It is personal. And it deserves support that honors the whole person.
Personally, my path to this work was shaped by my own journey through secondary infertility. I have experienced pregnancy loss, long periods of trying, invasive procedures, canceled cycles, failed IVF attempts, and the physical and emotional toll of fertility treatment.
I was informed by the science, but I was changed by the journey.
“I didn't become a fertility doula despite my journey. I became one because of it.” — Quisha
My Story
Almost 5 Years of Holding On...
My personal infertility journey required deep reflection, surrender, and trust. My faith, although wavering at times, has been an anchor — offering grounding and perspective through seasons of uncertainty.
April 2021
Fibroidectomy
Surgery to address fibroids affecting my ability to conceive. The first step in a journey I did not yet know how long would be.
May 2021
Tubal Reversal Surgery
Only one tube was repairable. But one was enough to hope with.
January 2022
Conceived Naturally with one tube
A glimpse of hope with a natural pregnancy 9 months after tubal reversal.
March 2022
Pregnancy Loss - On My Birthday
Initial numbness. Shock. Sadness. The real grieving didn't happen until a year later.
December 2022
100% Tubal Blockage Confirmed
Tried for a year to get pregnant again with no success. A test confirmed that my one tube was fully blocked. The natural pathway I had been counting on was gone. That season taught me something I still carry today. Grief and faith, hope and heartbreak can coexist.
January 2023
Holistic Health Reset (Or So I Thought)
I started doing all the things: diet, supplements, a personal trainer, acupuncture, therapy, meditation, and more Facebook groups than I care to admit. I had no idea what I was walking into.
March 2023
First IVF Canceled Mid-Cycle
My first planned IVF cycle was canceled mid-cycle due to getting coronavirus.
April 2023
IVF Cycle 1 Failed
My second cycle moved forward with two eggs retrieved. Only one egg was viable, but a fresh embryo transfer failed. More sadness, frustration, grief, and delay!
July 2023
IVF Cycle 2 - Hormone Levels Too High
My second IVF cycle retrieved 12 eggs, but only one was viable, but nd my progesterone levels were too high for a fresh transfer. The embryo was frozen to be implanted at a later date. I was learning, slowly and painfully, that I was not in control.
October 2023
Silent Endometriosis Diagnosed
Several months after a uterine biopsy, I was told I had an inflamed uterus. The diagnosis given was "silent endometriosis" — a condition I had never shown symptoms of.
December 2023
Chemical Menopause
Three months of chemical menopause with Lupron Depot injections to "suppress inflammation" and prepare my body for the frozen embryo transfer. Severe hot flashes, interrupted sleep, and high blood pressure for the first time in my life. It was brutal.
April 2024
IVF Canceled Again Mid-Cycle
The transfer was canceled — my body ovulated too soon! Another month. Another set-back. Lord, I'm so tired. When is it going to be my time?!
May 2024
Failed IVF Transfer with FET
The frozen embryo transfer failed, and the doctor recommends trying again with an egg donor to improve our chances. I was SOOOO angry with God.
June-August 2024
Went on a summer “grief tour”
Summer of traveling, weekly therapy, prayer, and meditation. Starting to feel better….starting to talk about my experience, and starting to accept that I am not in control and the child I give my husband will not share my DNA. We decided surrogacy with an egg donor would be our best option for success.
August 2024
Weight Loss Surgery and Letting it Go
Had weight loss surgery and began to prioritize my physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual health. I lost 50 pounds in 3 months, and I finally let go and let GOD!
November 2024
Egg Donor with Gestational Surrogate
Traveled to Nigeria. Selected an egg donor and had 3 embryos implanted into a surrogate.
December 2024
Failed IVF and a Surprise
Found out the transfer failed. Our surrogate didn't get pregnant! FOUND OUT ON THE SAME DAY THAT I WAS PREGNANT NATURALLY at 42 years old.
July 2025
Our Miracle Baby Was Born
After almost five years, countless procedures, and nearly $100k — our baby arrived. Faith kept. Promise fulfilled.
Do You Need a Fertility Doula?
Let's Walk This Walk Together
Whether you're just beginning your fertility journey or deep in the middle of it, you deserve support that honors the whole person — body, mind, and spirit. I've been where you are and understand the emotional weight of this journey, and you don't have to walk it alone.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can you support me if I have had a loss?
Yes, and I hold this with so much care. Loss is real, and grief deserves a safe place. I am here to sit with you in it, honor what you have been through, and support you when and if you feel ready to try again. There is no rushing and no pressure.
Can my partner be part of this?
Absolutely. This journey touches the whole family, not just one person. I am happy to include your partner in our conversations so you both feel informed, connected, and supported.
Is this faith based? Do I have to believe what you believe?
My faith is a big part of who I am, and it shapes the care and compassion I bring. But you do not have to share my beliefs to work with me. Everyone is welcome here, exactly as they are.
Fertile Ground with Quisha Umemba
Rooted in Faith. Ready for Anything.
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